![]() That type of ‘90s and early aughts anti-feminism is certainly on the outs, but it feels like it took a Jamie to truly reset the course. This “battle of the babes” was mirrored in pop culture for years, both on and off the screen with TV shows ranging from Beverly Hills 90210 to Desperate Housewives and pseudo-wars that pitted Christina against Britney, Jennifer against Angelina. ![]() (Only 82 women of color are promoted.) And let’s not forget the impact of the Great Resignation on the representation of women in the workforce. (And of those 53 women at the helm, only a handful of them are women of color.) According to the “Women in the Workplace” report, published in December 2022 by McKinsey and LeanIn, only 1 in 4 C-Suite leaders is a woman and only 1 in 20 is a woman of color, a gap brought on by what the report refers to as the “broken rung” in the corporate ladder-for every 100 men that are promoted from an entry level position to management, only 87 women are promoted. How grim is it? Well, at the beginning of 2023 we learned that, for the first-time in its seven-decade history, the total number of female CEOs at Fortune 500 companies is above 10 percent which, while a milestone, is still woefully disproportionate. ![]() “Another woman’s success is a detraction from our own,” Gallagher adds. Especially in corporate cultures, where female leaders are few and far between, we’ve been taught to view other women as threats, our competition. Instead, she laments, women have been conditioned their whole lives to buy into the scarcity mindset. “There was something about that photo that delivered a physical representation of what hyping another woman looks like,” Gallagher explained in a conversation over Zoom. What was it about one star cheering on another that helped crystalize the deep-rooted benefits of loudly and proudly lifting each other up? We’ve even got the somewhat eyeroll-inducing (though heart-in-the-right-place) Ariana DeBose BAFTA rap written to honor women in film (which, ironically, Curtis also commended). We’ve got Lisa Ann Walter and Elaine Hendrix combating the Parent Trap narrative at the SAG Awards. Suddenly, we’ve got Taylor Swift shouting out SZA on IG stories. Other celebs seem to be hearing this plea and living it. Gallagher’s call to action? “Ladies, this is your vibe for 2023. Trust that everything you need is within you and trust it can be found.Gallagher’s LinkedIn post on the topic also went viral, but she credits all this virality to the look on Curtis’s face-her “excitement, joy and passion” for Michelle was “palpable.” If you saw it out of context, you’d actually think it was Curtis who won, she was that genuine in cheering on her colleague and friend. There is so much to learn, but that’s true of everyone else too.īecome your own hype girl by noticing how you’re feeling and why, and knowing exactly how to move past it. Identify them yourself and keep on getting better. Remind yourself of that every time you need to.Īs well as not relying on others to build you up, don’t rely on others to point out your weaknesses. Plenty of people have gone before you to solve the exact problems you’re solving now. ![]() It’s fine not to know exactly how to solve something yet you can always find the answer from somewhere. See yourself as an apprentice who is continuously learning, rather than pressuring yourself to have all the answers. Don’t confuse the cause and the effect and don’t make long-term decisions based on short-term and transient emotions. Not being able to focus could have more to do with the sugar you just consumed than not having the skills to complete the work. Feeling stressed at work might be a result of a bad night’s sleep rather than being on the wrong career path. ![]() Thinking in this way helps isolate feelings and not get carried away with speculation about what they might mean. Solving the issue at its cause can stop you needing the hype in the first place. Perhaps it’s something you’ve eaten or drank, the effect of someone you’ve recently spent time with or perhaps you haven’t been sleeping well. Heighten awarenessīeing able to recognise when you are feeling irritable or low helps you work through the mood but also helps you avoid it before it happens. ![]()
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